Gommy was in a doctor's office this morning and a man was checking out in front of me. He was the sort of person who takes up more space than needed. NO, he wasn't fat....he just wanted to be noticed, he wanted to be more important than he felt he was to everyone else so he just took up more space than need be. His demeanor seemed to bother me so much that it appeared I may have to just look into the whys of it....
There are many things Goms has learned about myself and just 'stuff' in general since exploring this Spirituality thingy.....and one of the things that I discovered is that we all have these numerous lessons to learn about ourselves. One thing is that the more someone or something bothers us, the more we should question why they/it bothers us and if we go even further.... we could ask if the reason is that person's trait is mirroring a trait of our own that we possess and that we dislike about ourselves or maybe we have tried to disown.
There are Universal Laws (or Natural Law) that govern the process of how the Universe operates. The main thing to remember though is that the Greatest Law is that God is the Energy and that He is the Sheriff of all the Laws. That is how Goms chooses to picture it anyway! There are seven Universal Laws and there are also twelve Spiritual Laws ( and 21 Sub Laws which control human characteristics) that explain the orderly method of an omnipotent God. The Universal Laws consisit of seven Laws: 1) The Law of Perptual Transmutation 2) The Law of Relativity 3) The Law of Vibration (Law of Attraction) 4) The Law of Polarity 5) The Law of Rhythm 6) The Law of Cause and Effect and 7) The Law of Gender. The twelve Spiritual Laws contain the seven Universal Laws with five more Laws added, they are: 1) The Law of Divine Oneness 2) The Law of Vibration 3) The Law of Action 4) The Law of Correspondence 5) The Law of Cause and Effect 6) The Law Of Compensation 7) The Law of Attraction 8) The Law of Perpetual Transmutation of Energy 9) The Law of Relativity 10) The Law of Polarity 11) The Law of Rhythm and 12) The Law of Gender. Now you don't have to believe Gommy that these Laws rule what goes on in the Universe, but your very circumstances and the life you are living are fact because the Laws are always working whether you believe them or not. You can change your circumstances if you just learn how and why the Laws work and apply them to your life.
Now, you are probably wondering why Goms went off on that tangent...The reason is that Goms was wondering if the character trait the man displayed in the doctors' office was a trait that I have myself. I hope it isn't....but the Laws say that it is..... but which Law is it? Goms thinks it may be the Law of Attraction: That which is alike....attracts to itself. But we do have free will and if we choose to change our lives, we can search for the 'tools' (Laws) that will help us change things.
Like, if Gommy really doesn't want to be the sort of person who is obnoxious (like the man in the doctor's office), then a little effort will have to be put into 'disowning' that trait. But the tricky part here is to not go overboard because another Law will kick into effect to balance things out. If you are sending negative energy out to someone, it increases negative or disempowering energy in both of you. The harder you attack, judge, criticise, argue, pressure, blame.......the harder the other energy will fight back. What you resist...persists! Get it? You know.....Karma, Reap and Sow....the stuff Goms is always talking about!
For example: Goms knows you have experienced someone who is really mad and someone else just gets in their space and the negative energy escalates and sometimes a fight ensues....or take the opposite energy......you may have had a fight with someone and you can see it isn't going in the right direction or you see the person is getting close to erupting, so you just back down and say..."You're right." But not in a sarcastic way. You can immediately see the othe person calming down. And you can see there is no resistance anymore....there is no reason to escalate the situation any longer. Poof....it's over.
So the remedy for dealing with unpleasant people or situations then would be to what.... be positive? That is soooo darn hard isn't it? But it makes sense. You have to step back and observe why you are having such a hard time with the concept, argument or person. The more positive energy you put out to another person and/or situation, the more you are balancing the positive energy in both sides and it enables the Laws to balance the energy. Sometimes it is hard to change the way you feel about something and you dig in with both feet, but that rarely works if you really want a compromise. If you really do want harmony and peace, you sometimes have to reassess your stance. Like Wayne Dyer says...."When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change."
What this boils down to is that Goms has to be observant that I am not becoming obnoxious and taking up too much room or insisting on having too much attention paid to me when I am observing that in someone else. And the way I must do that is to not judge other people, criticise them or not feel those negative emotions when I come in contact with those sorts of people and maybe some of my positive energy will rub off on them instead of having their negative, obnoxious, yucky energy stick on me. Ewwwwww.
So....lesson for today boys and girls....look up the full definitions of the Laws and see how they really do affect everyone and everything around us. If we can just step back far enough and try to apply the Laws to our lives to work in our favor, we may be able to change the 'yuckies' in our lives and not get any cooties on us from those who haven't been willing to look into it yet.....We can do it, Goms is pulling for us.....Uhhhh...you'll have to excuse Goms now, I have some soul searching to do....Hugs and Mush....Goms ((^.^))
